For six years I watched my students arrive with a little less of what makes us human. Nothing about AI is time-sensitive. Childhood is. The work here is getting the order right.
Educator guidance grounded in research and classroom experience. Not medical or legal advice.
One question, for anything that enters your child's life. Protect the developmental window, build human skills on purpose, and bring in AI only after the foundation is built.
Guard the developmental years from the screen exposure that trains short attention and instant gratification.
Language, attention, empathy, self-regulation. Built the slow human way, on purpose, boredom included.
Concepts before tools. Understanding before dependence. Once the foundation is built, not a moment sooner.
Not anti-technology. Pro-human, in the right order.
I stood in front of my class one morning with a thought I couldn't shake: I was looking at a room slowly filling with little robots. Not because these kids weren't bright. They were. But more and more of them arrived depleted: shorter attention, less language, no patience for boredom.
That's where the alarm started. Not in a research paper. In a classroom, at eye level with the kids it's happening to.
Read the full story →"Nothing about the technology is time-sensitive. The foundations of a child's mind are."
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The quiet that quietly costs conversation.
When the machine answers before your child gets to think.
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Former K–2 teacher, advocating for children in the age of AI. Six years in the classroom is what started this.
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